FOR PARENTS OF COMPETITIVE SOCCER PLAYERS

Does Your Child Look Confident in Practice… But Hesitant When the Game Actually Matters?

The Mental Performance System Helping High-Level Soccer Players Eliminate Fear, Play With Confidence, and Become Leaders on the Field

Trusted by 800+ competitive players and families


If you're a parent of a competitive player, you've probably seen this...

  • They play great in training but hesitate in games.

  • One mistake completely changes their confidence.

  • They overthink instead of reacting naturally.

  • They play safe instead of taking risks.

This program is for:

  • Competitive soccer players

  • MLS NEXT, ECNL, ODP, GA

  • Elite club players

  • Families committed to long-term development

  • Parents willing to support the process

  • Parents who are tired of seeing their child performing in practice but not in games

This program is NOT for:

  • Recreational players

  • Families looking for technical soccer training

  • Players looking for a local soccer academy

  • Parents looking for overnight results

  • Parents looking for per session or cheap courses

Don't take our word for it, hear from some of our 800+ families that trusted us

DSM 3 Step Process

Learn & apply mental tools

We give players the mental tools to apply in practices and games, helping them develop a new personality on game day. We identify what's holding them back, fear of mistakes, hesitation, perfectionism, or playing too safe, and replace it with confidence, composure, and leadership.

Change limiting beliefs and self talk

We rewire their self-talk, eliminate limiting beliefs, and help them think and act like a champion. We train their response to fear, pressure, and mistakes so they stop hesitating and become a completely different player on the field.

Habits and accountability

Learn and apply the same daily habits used by top players. Through accountability and the DSM App, players track their progress, build winning routines, and create a system that helps them consistently apply the right mindset in practices and games.

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The #1 Solution in The Game

800+ testimonials

Trusted by 1000s of families, 800 of them decided to leave us a positive review

99% satisfaction rate

Across 1000s of parents we worked with we have a 99% satisfaction rate

Our promise

If your child does at least 90% of the daily tasks assigned to them, you will see improvement

Out of our control outcomes

We cannot promise any specific outcome although most of our players became captains or made it to Real Madrid and PSG we can't guarantee those results

DSM proprietary APP

We have developed our own proprietary app with courses, AI coach Valentino and gamified for kids and for parents support and monitoring

Elite continuation opportunities

If your chid does well we will invite them to continue with us

What is included?

  • - Weekly private coaching

  • - Personalized mindset plan

  • - Mental performance curriculum

  • -Parent recap feedback

  • -Accountability between sessions

  • -Ongoing support throughout the program

MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO

Valentino Di Lorenzo

 From being a very shy kid who was playing in fear, a "bench warmer", only playing 10-15 minutes in games at most.

Learned from mentors, coaches and became captain of multiple teams, playing in high level teams, playing in Italy in the SERIE A2 futsal, winning UPSL North East Conference and South Florida as captain.

Former Juventus Academy coach, former pro player

Growth mindset certified

20+ years of experience, 800+ players transformed

OUR TEAM

Eli Yasuna

Mental Performance Coach & Former Collegiate Athlete

Gabe Franklin

Mental Performance Coach

Claire Hounslow

Former Collegiate Soccer Player & Mental Performance Coach

Alex Meny

Former NCAA Division I Goalkeeper, Mindset Coach & Educator

Kealan McCutcheon

Mental Performance Coach & Former Collegiate Athlete

All our coaches are sport psychologists, with extensive experience in coaching or playing at high level

TRUSTED BY 800+ HIGH LEVEL soccer parents

More families that took action

These families didn't wait and hope, they decided to invest in their child's mindset and got rewarded.
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STILL NOT SURE?

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this just motivation or actual coaching?

No. This is structured mental performance training. We don't rely on motivation or positive thinking. Players learn specific tools they can apply in real game situations:

How to reset immediately after mistakes

How to stay confident under pressure

How to stop overthinking in games

Everything is designed to transfer directly onto the field.

How is it different than a sport psychologist?

Most sports psychologists work session-by-session and focus heavily on conversation. This program is different because:

It follows a structured system over 90 days

Players practice tools consistently, not just talk about them

Everything is built specifically for soccer situations

The focus is not just understanding the problem. It's changing behavior in games.

Will this help my child perform better in games?

If your child completes the program and applies the tools, yes. That's the goal. Most players we work with already have the skill. The issue is how they react under pressure. What typically improves:

Confidence in matches

Ability to recover after mistakes

Willingness to take risks

Consistency between training and games

That said, results depend on the player's engagement and consistency.

What age group is this for and is it online?

This program is designed for competitive players, typically between 9 and 18 years old. The tools are adapted based on age and level so they are simple and applicable. The program is fully online. This allows players to:

Access training consistently regardless of location

Review tools anytime

Apply what they learn directly in their own training and games

What matters is not location. It's repetition and application.

How much time does it require?

We keep it simple and manageable:

1 weekly session

Short daily exercises (around 10 minutes)

Match reflection after games

The goal is consistency, not overload.

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